So you’ve spent a big chunk of your life with this man, (I say man because he has all the attributes you want in a man, the relationship is serious), but you don’t know what you can do to nudge him or rather, show him that you are marriage material, keep reading and let’s see 3 things a man checks in a woman he really wants to marry.
So every man who has spent time with a woman he is not married to and has not cheated on her loves her and has future plans with such a lady. At this point, he is checking to see if the woman will be the right “investment” or he will regret his decision.
This article is written under the assumption that both you and your man have an awesome attraction towards each other.
Here are some of the attributes he looks out for;
1. You give him peace
One thing that ladies greatly underestimate in the life of men is the place or hierarchy of peace in their lives. If you want a guy to leave you, simply remove peace from his life and he will run from you as if you are covid19 positive.
The most important tip I will mention in this article is to tell you how to make a man see you as a long-term partner.
The easiest and surest way to do this is to give him peace. If you can become his place of peace, it is proven that he will actually overlook some of your flaws just so that he can stay with you.
When you guys are together, give him peace, not stress. If you keep this up, you’ll notice that the way he looks at you will change. That’s the sign you want. Except you don’t want a long-term relationship, don’t try this.
2. You are kindhearted
This ties to the earlier attribute. Men love women who are thoughtful, caring, loving, and kind. A woman who does little things for her man for no other reason other than that she loves him.
A woman who makes him smile back whenever she smiles at him. A woman who radiates love and warmth from her heart. That is the kind of woman a man would be swooning to marry.
There’s an extra step for you to take here. If you are kind to only him, he will suspect you even though he will not tell him and later on you’ll start wondering why he doesn’t trust you.
What he is checking is whether you are really kind or is it just the feelings that are making you behave that way. You see a wise man knows that feelings fade and how you treat other people will be how you treat him when the feelings fade.
So you need to show him that this is who you are by treating other people kindly. Strangers, waiters, his friends, and family, treat everyone thoughtfully and kindly.
If you have a selfish personality, this will be the right time to start working on it before you lose that awesome relationship with that man.
3. You are willing to put in the effort
It is important to be giving in a relationship, but it is imperative that it stands true both ways. It does not have to be a lot though.
A woman can show that she is equally invested in the relationship by doing something as simple as slipping the waiter her credit card sometimes to pay for dinner.
It is true that sometimes the romance in long-term relationships wears off, but it shouldn’t be that way. When a woman continues to be the person she was when she first started dating, it shows that she cares about keeping the guy she loves around.
Also, it is equally important to show each other your appreciation for the effort each of you puts in. Being taken for granted leads to resentment.
When you make sure to have the above 3 attributes for a significant amount of time, you can be sure that he has you in his heart. He begins to overlook some minor “flaws” in you or that you do.
When you see a man always picking apart what a woman is doing, he is actually looking for a reason to end that relationship. Men naturally don’t bicker, so it’s always a sign to look out for if you are in a relationship.
It’s a sure sign that something is not right. If you care and are diligent enough, you’ll make sure to find it out and deal with it harmoniously.
This list is not exhaustive but shows the most important things to men. If you get this right, you have already gotten 50%
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Thanks for reading! Alice here.